i guess it’s just that it’s really uncomfortable thinking about you being on good terms with someone who sexually harassed me and once said they weren’t sure they’d be able to resist raping me if i said no. i don’t care what kind of person he is now. he did and said horrible things to me and i’m not the type to forgive my abusers. and it sucks knowing that like. i can never come visit you even. because he’s there.